friend's answers in red :-)
okay, so i'm thinking about mississippi and i'm thinking i'm just going to throw in the towel. a lot of times i just go with the flow and whatever. however, the more i'm trying to think of what all i need to know about this guy to make a decision the more its so obvious i'm treading shallow water.
i know i know i know it has been there all along, but my goodness when can i catch a break?
1. he said he graduated from southern miss with a degree in mechanical engineering after spending time at a community college. :- Ok. There is really nothing wrong with that, some folks take a while to get through school, various reasons, but at least he had the drive to finish. (he earns 1 points for that)
southern miss does not have a degree per se in mechanical engineering. its more so listed as industrial, construction etc and you go from there. true what he does may be considered mechanical engineering, but for me, this one is just kinda on the line. because he didnt just come right out and say it i dont guess.
2. he works contract jobs. he's from a small town called tallulah, ms. so i'm assuming there's not much there. he says he wants to leave and blah blah. okay, he's 34 he has a engineering degree. whats' the hold up? now i have had a few friends who have had a hard time finding engineering jobs but he's been out like 5 years. so?? Ok. Small town, maybe not a lot of well paying jobs, and you have to wait for ol’ man Jenkins to retire before there is an opening. but at least he had the drive to find legal employment (he earns 1 points for that)
3. major red flag: he lives with his parents. y? here's his story, his parents gave him a house, but he is on the road the majority of the time with various jobs so he gave it to his sister when she got married. hmmmm. my question: whats up with the apt on your own? Dude if I could have lived with my folks just a little bit longer and save some cake!!! Please some folks just like being home. But you are right he should want to be on his own unless he needs to be there for his parents (0 points)
4. he drives a $50,000 car so he says ( i dont know what it is i never ask cuz 1 i dont really care 2 bullsnit), plus he has 2 other vehicles (yawn, cough, whatever) yo ace in yo mama house 1. r u paying bills, 2. y 3. u still acting like a kid 3. there's no computer in the house (he mentioned...the friends house he goes to use the computer..my goodness *eyes rolling mouf twisted* ...the simple things) Heck you throw a few options on a ford and it could run you 50k and why do you need 3 cars if you can only drive one at a time? 1 Paying bills I’m sure he is, 2 Y because his momma would bust him in his head if he didn’t 3 kid, does he act like a kid? 4. computer well that depends on his living situation you know to some ol’ folks the computer is the work of the devil, and momma nem might only have the one dial up phone line so he can’t be using that. But (if you need a computer you should at least get your own Laptop and go find a t-mobile hot spot at Starbucks (-3 point)
okay, the question remains. y am i driving to memphis this weekend to meet a 34 yo who lives with his mama and cares more about the fact he drives a nice car and works out everyday than he does about building something for himself. (-3 points for you) Why are you driving there, are things that bad. He gets (1 point) for working out everyday but -2 for thinking his car is that important
PLEASE SEND THE BULLDOZER TO MY HOUSE ON Saturday MORNING TO STOP ME FROM DRIVING 200 + MILES FOR THIS
okay, this is what i'm going to do. tonight i'm bringing up the living witcho mama stuff and paying bills. i just met him last month. would i be outta order for asking those type of questions? heck no it doesnt matter guys ask for sex on day one as if. so nothing i ask should be considered outta order no matter when i ask especially if i ask it up front to set/change the tone. Yes it’s totally within reason to ask him. And then let me know what he says. You get 1 point for asking
Bottom line because of this situation you both are at -2. So I would hold off on the drive down unless you have other business to handle in Tallulah, MS. And just get to know this cat over the phone a little better
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