It's a bust!

Joel back on the bottom rung of the relationship ladder.  He left for orlando today and wasnt even trying to spend time or even tell me he was going or when he was leaving.  he mentioned it last week but it spoke as if it was still up in the air.  he claimed he was trying to spend time with his little girl cuz he spend so much time with his sons. he felt like he needed to give her some time.  her mom was tripping.  more like her mom's husband was trippin.  so needless to say he did not take the little girl. 

 

i never heard anything else about it.  so i didnt know he was still going.  i have not seen or talked to him since last week when he picked me up from the air port. Sunday.  we were suppose to hang out Tuesday.  i call and he says he has his son.  did he say anything to me before that?  no, but what he does say is his brother picked him up. so i'm still not knowing he going to orlando.  he said his son was going to be wit him til Friday.  i'm like cool. he wants to spend time with dad before school starts.

 

20 minutes later i get a text: next Friday.  so i'm like okay so he wit you a full week. whatever.  i know he has all these children but they are of age where they are fine at home plus yum yum lives with his older brother so someone's there.  its about 6 or 7 and he never says anything about us kicking it. 

 

almost 10:00 i get a text: you can come through.  What the hail?? so i tell him naw its too late. i'm pissy because he didnt say anything of the sort earlier and he didnt say anything when he told me he had his son and he never said that he had his son earlier that day. 

 

i was originally thinking his brother just went and got the child just because.  i dont know how they do things.  the trip is like 2 hours away and sometimes the mom meets them half way so its not bad.  anyway...

 

my point is he made no effort what so ever to spend time or tell me he was going to florida and when etc.

 

he is a terrible communicator and nothing has changed from all those other times we called ourselves talking. and the crazy thing is he said that he has never changed.  that little talk we had with him trying to get back with me, he now says he said nothing different from what he's been saying the entire time he's known me. 

 

i'm not even in-love anymore.  i'm no longer smitten.  i feel like i'm trying to force something now.  i kinda felt that way before, but now the excitement i had is not there. 

 

i'm really fed up with trying with this guy. 

 

his ring tone on my phone is "jerk" by new boyz.  lol and i changed his name to "not the 1".