No Time For Love

Sometimes love hurts and at 33 I don't feel I should still have to endure this trauma.  If a grown man tells you he loves you then he should mean it and show you how much he loves you.  If a grown man has issues or situations they are dealing with then he should have the maturity to see that it is not time for him to be in a relationship.  Things aren't always going to work out when you are ready for them and you are not always going to be ready for them when they are ready for you.  Timing is a sophisticated element that can only be conquered with timing itself.  The challenge for individuals is to persuade those elements, timing and timing, to work for you and not against you.

 

In the case of relationships going north or south, timing is the culmination of preparedness and knowing the level of preparedness needed.  There is something inside that urges you to make things work and match up whatever time you think is best.  However there are those urges that you ignore because your heart has a time frame all its own.   This is where the confusion and frustration comes into play.  Being ready naturally and being ready in her heart are two totally different sequences.  Naturally you don't have to think about being ready for a relationship.  Great things just happen and fall into place.  Being ready in your heart is an emotional roller coaster sabotaged by your mind's idea of this is the one, I'm ready. 

 

Aligning the two is what births harmony and long-term happiness.  If you're not feeling mutual harmony and happiness within your relationship then your timing is off and you need to step back, comfort yourself, and deal with the issues.  Dragging someone along until you realign yourself is unfair, unhealthy, and unproductive. 

 

Love is a natural process not something you force or compromise.  There are compromises in relationships but not in love.  Love is uncompromising and unconditional. Love takes center stage and never leaves you wanting more.  It fulfills the soul giving overflow so that you have plenty left over to share with others. 

 

Relationships take time and timing takes patience.  Be patient in your loving and time will be on your side.